Is it too oldfashioned to expect the man to pay on a date? http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date Some believe that the man should always pay, but others say now that women are in the workforce and share equal salaries that they should pay at least half the time. en-us Good manners are never oldf... - I think it's chivalrous and gallant of a man to offer to pay on the first date. Offereing and paying are two diff things, however. A man should always offer, a woman can decide whether to accept or not. . Pamela1129 Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:35:12 +0000 http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date Good manners are never oldf... - I think that if a man asks you out on a date, he should pay. With that being said let me add that I think it's smart for a woman to be prepared to pay, just in case. . Pacific-Writer Tue, 18 Sep 2007 00:24:07 +0000 http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date Good manners are never oldf... - Actually, I think whoever asks for the date should pay for the date. At least when the relationship is new, I think that whoever asked for the date should pay for it. If the relationship progresses to an exclusive thing, then it's reasonable to either take turns paying or split it. mama_k Mon, 17 Sep 2007 15:05:10 +0000 http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date Good manners are never oldf... - The man should definitely always pay. If the man is trying to impress the girl than getting the tab is definitely a better start than letting HER get it. It shows her that he is WILLING to be the gentleman. . Jordan Sun, 16 Sep 2007 19:44:21 +0000 http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date Women are just as capable o... - Women want to be equal right? If women want to be equal in everything, the can't be so choosy. You can't be equal in just some things, and not in others. Jordan Sun, 16 Sep 2007 19:45:33 +0000 http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date http://www.riledup.com/debate/843/is-it-too-oldfashioned-to-expect-the-man-to-pay-on-a-date