Online sex, at the end of the day, is masturbation with a bow on it. Let's be realistic; these people online are normal, horny people. Why not let them get something out of the exchange without making a big deal. They're not hurting anyone. And if people would just take the stigma off of it, maybe there wouldn't be all the hush hush about it. Communication about it might make the significant other feel more comfortable. But no, we have to be all uptight and make the situation sordid. It is just a little heavy breathing on the other side of the computer...but with a happy ending for two people. AND no one is being exploited!

I'm just trying to figure out how this could be cheating. If you aren't getting emotionally involved with the person, making secret plans to meet up and fornicate, who cares?. They are your private parts, your hand, your computer...instead of getting a virus from surfing the naughty net, why not find someone who is obliging to help your cause?

I always thought it was a shame that a woman in 12B is dying for sex while at the same time the guy in 11C is so horny he can't see straight...

I thought there should be some sort of cosmic clearinghouse where people with similar needs could get together and "scratch" each others "itch"...then came the computer to answer the problem.

No muss, no fuss..no expensive dating...no worry about disease...just a mutual online "wham-bam-thank-ya-mam" and everyone can sleep better.