That's a pretty strong statement from someone who hasn't died yet, and therefore has no idea what happens after death. Your faith in a Christian afterlife is fine, but it's just that...faith. It can't also be factual; no faith can. As soon as facts are discovered, it's no longer faith. It becomes a belief at that point, at the very least, and an indisputable law at most, but it ceases to be faith. Faith, it could be argued, contains a component of hope, and why would you hope for something that you know to be true? You would simply be glad it was so, but not hopeful. As I've said before, faith precludes the necessity for facts. To carry this notion further, sometimes faith is more powerful when the facts oppose it. So, believe what you like, have faith that Jesus will come for you, but don't speak as though you have authority on life after death; you are not that special. The fact that you are able to type on a computer means you haven't died yet, and if you had come back, you might well be famous now. No one still alive has any knowledge of the afterlife, whatever it may be, that can be proved to anyone other than themselves. Quoting the Bible won't win you the argument either; trust in the Bible is an article of faith. Your faith is a personal thing for you, and you alone. You have no right delineating existence for the rest of us who don't share your beliefs, in the same way that I have no right telling you that reincarnation is truth, even though it is my belief. I have faith in reincarnation, you have faith in "it is appointed to a man once to die, then the judgement." That's all the fact anyone can get out of this type of conversation.