Of course people don't want to be categorized, but first putting anyone into a description isn't dehumanizing them. Its DESCRIBING their lifestyle. Also this isn't a slam about all GAY people, only those who like Samwell are blatant about it.

Did you LOOK at the video? Go to that link and tell me if you think that video isn't affecting the opinions of millions of people and what they think of gay people. I know some, and I know that not all of them are that vulgar. And YES it was such.

And WHAT do you think that "rubbing" in your sexuality does for anyone, gay OR straight? Why does ANYONE need to scream it out? Or advertise it? That is the definition I'm giving here, that a gay person who shouts to the world about his sexuality .

- that he IS gay IS a "flamer". Seriously I worked with two different gay people once in the same job. One carried on normal conversations and was a very cool guy, i got along with him. The other was constantly hitting on all the men in our work .

-force and spreading the work literally that he was gay. Even after we got the point and clearly didn't really care he still "flamed" on and would NOT shut up about it. So don't get mad at me, its REAL its OBVIOUS, and its UNDENIABLE. ->.

-> there IS a difference between gays and "flamers".

Samwell's song about butt loving is a little extreme and well, honestly disgusting. Its people like him that set the stereotype in the public eye on what a gay person is like. No wonder gays are having a hard time being accepted in the world.

A Gay person and live his life without broad casting his sexuality. He or she can be confident without everyone knowing. A Flamer (like this Samwell- in the link) must gleefully spread the news in the most disturbing ways possible. It's NASTY!!