misleading. Plus, if someone is no longer taking care of their health, it efforts more than just their looks. If their health starts taking a turn, their spouse is going to have to care for them and that it's right. . It's better to be honest about these things before the marriage. It's not good to make your soon to be spouse think they are marrying a healthy, fit person only to find it was all a ploy for marriage.

Umm, I doubt many people actually use health and fitness as a "ploy" for marriage. Your point is very insulting. No one wants to gain weight after marriage, which is the attitude you appear to espouse.